#267 Blood Money

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…white people call each other out and it don’t have sh*t to do with us, you love to see it! Also the impact of messaging in audio vs visual media, colorism as a global phenomenon, working while Black AND FREE! (can you do both?) And checking your straight privilege while dating. This week’s hotlist - Go to the doctor yo. Saturday Night Live isn’t our Jam, but Bill Burr made us laugh. White women’s accountability for their role in white supremacy. Y’all watching Real Housewives of Potomac? Revisiting Brown Skin Girl and Beyoncé’s video vs audio representation. Workplace advice in a free Black context (that’s what we be doing). Rethinking ‘I May Destroy You’, nuances and privilege in dating, is it deceitful not to disclose sexuality if you’re trying to avoid bigotry? aaaand mad other ish... SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com Register for Afrolatinx Reggaeton Virtual Happy Hour https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afrolatinx-reggaeton-happy-hour-tickets-123952857333 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 3:27 Donation libations 15:57 Affirmations 20:13 SNL Bill Burr 22:00 Brown Skin Girl Revisited 48:04 Black and free at work 1:06:46 Sexuality, disclosure & privilege 1:15:15 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Bill Burr SNL Clip https://twitter.com/etanthomas36/status/1315264855331528706?s=21 EP. 215 “Brown Skin Girl” - conversation starts at 34:04 - 58:00 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/215-brown-skin-girl EP. 256 “You About to Lose Yo Job” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/256-you-about-to-lose-yo-job EP. 265 “I May Destroy You” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you This week’s hashtag: #BlackLivesMatter This week’s closing clip features Monica Roberts from her interview with Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate podcast. May Monica Roberts rest peacefully. https://www.instagram.com/tv/CGIGsfLg_i5/?igshid=1gidlmbqflt5p This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Music Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Other music by Chad Milner Tree Tenants by Revolution Void https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcode