#268: Stop Talking, Start Connecting: The Cure for Overspeaking - Joel Schwartzberg

[33:58] Overspeaking—a term heard less often than overthinking or overanalyzing—is more than simply talking too much. Yet, like the other two, it can negatively impact effective communication. Our guest today, communication coach and author Joel Schwartzberg, an expert in helping individuals navigate all three, will shed light on one in particular: overspeaking. In this episode, Joel enlightens us on the concept of overspeaking—why it's so common, particularly in the workplace, its consequences, and how to overcome it. He shares practical strategies to improve communication, manage time, and keep discussions focused on key goals for effective collaboration.Beyond offering sage advice, Joel provides actionable steps leaders can take to manage overspeaking. He also introduces us to a new concept: the Rabbit Hole Minder—and more.Joel Schwartzberg has been a communication coach and speechwriter for nearly two decades. He is the author of The Language of Leadership: How to Engage and Inspire Your Team and Get to the Point! Sharpen Your Message and Make Your Words Matter.A former U.S. national and state champion in collegiate public speaking, Joel was inducted into the National Forensic Association Hall of Fame in 2002. His insights on effective communication have been featured in Harvard Business Review, Fast Company, Toastmaster Magazine, CNBC, Newsweek, and Inc.com, along with guest appearances on numerous business and communication podcasts.Joel Schwartzberg lives in New Jersey, USA  and can be reached at JoelSchwartzberg.net, where you’ll find all his articles and reference materials organized by skill set.🔗 Read Joel's latest article: Stop Talking So Much! Why People Overspeak and How to Keep Discussions Concise, that appears in the January 2025 issue of Toastmaster Magazine.🎙️ Listen to our previous interview with Joel on Episode #213: Techniques for Supercharging Your Listening Skills:Listen here