267: Why Putting Yourself Last Is Making Your Health Worse

You know what to do. Eat the vegetables. Get to bed earlier. Move your body. You've known it for years. So why does it keep falling apart the second life gets hard — or honestly, even when it doesn't?In this episode, I'm making a case that might surprise you: the reason your healthy habits keep falling apart has almost nothing to do with food, and everything to do with how much you believe your own needs matter. Not in a therapy-speak, abstract kind of way. In a very real, very practical, happens-at-the-dinner-table kind of way.We're talking about the connection between putting yourself last and why your health keeps sliding - and what it actually looks like to start changing that. Not with a bigger, better plan. With something much smaller, and honestly, much more powerful.This one might make you see your health struggles in a completely different light. Give it twenty minutes.Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. I submitted a talk for SXSW 2027: Biohacking Is Just Dieting in a Lab Coat. Community voting runs through August 23rd, and it's part of what determines who gets on stage in Austin next March. If this resonates, I'd love your vote: CLICK HERE. Free account required, takes about a minute. If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast.After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too.To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving.Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.