269. Becoming a More Embodied Lover with Jim Benson

Hey hey! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I’m joined by Jim Benson for a really powerful conversation around male pleasure, intimacy, embodiment, and connection. Jim has spent more than two decades helping men become more confident, present, and skillful lovers through his work in tantra, coaching, and somatic based sexuality education. He brings such a refreshing perspective to conversations around sex, shame, performance, and pleasure, and I absolutely loved where this discussion went.In this episode:Why many men never learned intimacy skillsHow porn impacts connection and presenceRoutine sex versus embodied sexHow shame and trauma affect sexBalancing pleasure and connectionUsing breathwork to increase pleasureCreating intimacy through touch and breathWhy sex can get better with ageThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!**This episode is sponsored by Foria. Visit ForiaWellness.com and use my exclusive code MAINE20 for 20% off your order!**ResourcesHow to Talk to Your Man About SexSensate Focus 101The 3 Minute GameConnect with JimWebsite: AwakenedMasculine.comSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: [email protected]