#269| Why Being A "Nice Girl" Is Actually Just People Pleasing & The Simple Strategy To Help You STOP Without Seeming Like A Jerk

Have you ever said "yes" just because you didn't want someone to be disappointed—even when you desperately wanted to say "no"?Many working women believe being "nice" means putting everyone else's needs ahead of their own. But what if that habit isn't kindness at all? In this episode, Michelle unpacks the surprising connection between people-pleasing and control, explains why honesty is actually the kinder choice, and shares a simple mindset shift that helps you set boundaries without guilt.By listening to this episode, you'll discover: Why being "nice" and being kind are not the same thing—and how people-pleasing keeps you stuck.  How to recognize everyday moments where you're sacrificing your own needs just to avoid disappointing others.  A simple mantra you can use to tell the truth with confidence while staying compassionate and authentic. Press play to learn how honest kindness can help you break free from people-pleasing, create healthier boundaries, and feel calmer without sacrificing who you are.Wondering why you're overwhelmed? Take my "why am I overwhelmed" quiz to find out the source of your overwhelm, and what to do about it. Send Me a Message - Have a question, comment, or just want to say hi?  Message me here, I'd love to chat!  Work With Me - Interested in working with me 1-on-1, taking a class, or joining one of my coaching groups? Message me here to get the scoop.   Want More? - If you love the content of this podcast, you'll love our Simple Sunday newsletter too. When you sign up, you’ll receive a simple dose of inspiration, practical tips, and a little fun—designed to help you start your week with simplicity and intention. Sign up here Life can be overwhelming, but on this podcast, you'll discover practical strategies to overcome overwhelm, imposter syndrome, and negative self-talk, manage time effectively, set boundaries, and stay productive in high-stress jobs—all while learning how to say no and prioritize self-care on the Overwhelmed Worki...