27. 'Help, I Have an Antagonist in My House!' - Parenting ADHD Kids Who Love to Stir the Pot [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden

In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it’s like raising my own little “antagonist” – you know, kids who just can’t help but push everyone’s buttons, whether it’s poking their siblings, pushing boundaries, or always looking for that reaction. With an ADHD brain that’s always craving excitement, these kids often engage in “accidentally on purpose” disruptions to stir the pot.Key Topics CoveredI’m sharing my personal stories (get ready for a laugh) and insights on understanding these behaviours and how to redirect that energy into something positive, like using "restarts" to hit reset and help create a calmer, happier home.My favourite strategies for getting through those tough days, with practical tips to manage the chaos and turn things around when they’re spiralling out of control.How to dodge sibling blow-ups and build stronger connections by staying ahead of their tricks and finding ways to keep them engaged in good ways.Why leading with love and compassion (even when it’s tough) can transform the vibe in your home, and how small shifts in how we handle things can make a big difference.If you’re wrangling your own “stirrer” or just need a bit of solidarity on this wild ride of parenting neurodivergent kids, this one’s for you!Links Mentioned:Check out my chat with Dr Justin Coulson about ADHD, iPads, and morning routines on Apple Podcasts or on SpotifyFind out more about our family psychologist at Body and Mind OnlineBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodivergent #antagonist #adhdtips #parentingstrategies #ADHDers #adhdpodcastMentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.