27. Pseudo-Self Vs True Self

What do you really want in your life?What would you say if I told you that your answer to this question may not be coming from your true, authentic self, but from a socialized pseudo-self?Just because you feel a strong pull towards something, doesn’t mean that it is in alignment with your values and your highest self.In this episode, I’m diving deeper into the concept of the pseudo-self vs the true self, the difference between the two, and showing you how to recognize where these may show up in your life.Hear the fork-in-the-road moment that led me to choose the path of my highest desire instead of listening to my pseudo-self, and why the same is possible for you.If you are trying to make a decision in an area of your life, or you know someone else who is, you don’t want to miss out on this episode. In This Episode:[02:20] Learn one of the ways my past trauma shows up in my current life[4:00] The thing you say you want might not be coming from your true authentic self. Find out where it’s coming from[05:05] This is how the concept of pseudo vs true self has shown up in my own life and influenced the decisions I have made[10:00] I’m sharing what the pseudo-self is for me[14:04] Some questions to ask yourself to see if you are coming from your pseudo or true self[15:28] There are two sacrifices possible when working with your pseudo-self and true self. Here’s what they are… FREE tools:Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-NewsletterNeed more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSunRapid Relationship Repair FREE Mini-Course - https://bit.ly/RapidRelationshipRepair