27: Why Some People Suffer More: The 7 Dimensions of Trauma

The Seven Dimensions of Trauma That Explain the Depth of Your PainFind the full transcript for this episode at transformintowisdom.com/27Have you ever wondered why you are still carrying trauma — long after others seem to have moved on? Why what happened to you left a mark that therapy, time, and sheer force of will haven't been able to fully reach?In this episode, we build a framework with research that finally answers that question. We explore seven dimensions of traumatic experience that determine how deeply a wound goes: what the event actually was, how long you were inside it, who caused it and who failed to stop it, where it happened, when in your development it arrived, how it was carried out, and why. Along the way, we bring in the work of Judith Herman on complex PTSD, Jennifer Freyd's Betrayal Trauma Theory and the DARVO response, Ronnie Janoff-Bulman's Shattered Assumptions Theory, Kenneth Pargament on spiritual belief and trauma, and research on neurodivergence and PTSD rates that is rarely discussed in healing spaces — but that many of you will recognize immediately.This is the foundation episode. The one that says: you did not suffer this much because you are fragile. You suffered this much because of what happened, how it happened, and the specific conditions in which it arrived.Find somewhere quiet and listen in. Support the showStay empowered and true to yourself.— Mariam Kavai, Transform into WisdomIf something in today's episode stirred something in you — if you are ready to move beyond understanding what happened and into actually rebuilding — I would love to connect with you.I work with sensitive souls who are ready for structured, supported rebuilding after narcissistic relationships and dysfunctional family systems. Not instead of therapy. After it. The next step, when you are ready for one.You can find me and take the first step at transformintowisdom.comTransform into Wisdom Podcast — a trauma-informed coaching for men and women healing from childhood trauma and narcissistic relationships. Beyond therapy. Into rebuilding.