275 Father's Day Series (3 of 4) I'm Never Going To Be Like My Father!

1:50  Go back and listen to episodes 273 and 274 if you haven't already 2:35  What are the strongest memories of your Dad? 2:55  Whatever you remember MOST, is likely the type of dad you had 3:55  I had the absent father, because I was abandoned at 5 years old 4:30  I'm a life coach so I've seen it AND I've experienced 5:00  What are the happiest moments you remember with your Dad? 6:00  Write down the memories that you have... 6:15  What are the negative memories you have of your Dad? 8:15  Whatever it is that you wished of your father, be that for your child 8:55  Don't say what you're "NOT" going to do 9:20  What's the biggest fear you have with raising your child? 10:45  I have a mantra, or goal... I wish to have the respect of my adult children and no "thing" or no "fling" will come between that 12:00  There are only two things that kids really need: to feel safe and feel loved 12:40  Write down 5 things that YOU believe a good father should do or be (feel free to reference last week's podcast) 13:40  Name 3 things you hope to accomplish as a father (and here are my 3) 14:50  Name three things that you do NOT want to repeat from what your dad did 15:35  Tell your kids these three things EVERY day 16:10  I'm sure my 8 year old "gets" it now 17:25  What's your biggest insecurity about being a father? 17:50  Write down 2 to 10 positive male role models you had growing up 18:55  What's your relationship with your mother like? 20:05  All of these things add up to being the dad you wish you had 20:25  You cannot be in a place of gratitude and angry about the way you were raised at the same time 21:40  Break the cycle. This is your chance.