279: 100 lbs Down - A Client Story

Chris has been on a diet since she was eleven years old. Keto, Atkins, Weight Watchers, the five-bite diet, and about a dozen things in between. She lost weight on every single one of them. She also gained it back every time. When she found this podcast and eventually started working with Elizabeth, she was not expecting anything different. She'd done the plans. She knew what plans could do, and what they couldn't.What she didn't expect was that somewhere in the process, the weight would stop being the point.In this episode of Done with Dieting, Elizabeth talks with Chris, a long-term client and former listener, about what 100 pounds of weight loss actually looks like from the inside. Not the plan. Not the food rules. The real shift: the one that happened when Chris stopped treating her eating as a discipline problem and started understanding what was actually driving it.If you've ever thought that real, lasting change isn't available to you because you've failed at it enough times to have evidence, this conversation is going to challenge that belief. Chris is a nurse. She is smart, informed, and spent decades doing everything she was supposed to do. And she still couldn't make it stick, until she understood why.WHAT YOU'LL LEARNWhy women who know exactly what to do still can't make it stick, and what's actually getting in the wayWhat changes when weight loss stops being the goal, and why that shift is what finally made the results last for ChrisHow decades of people-pleasing and putting everyone else first shows up in your eating, and what it looks like when that pattern starts to changeWhy Chris, a nurse with full access to medical knowledge, still couldn't see what was happening in her own body until she had outside supportThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode MattersMost weight loss content gives you information you already have. Another plan, another set of rules, another promise that this time will be different if you just follow the steps correctly. Chris's story is not that. She'd followed the steps. Many times. What changed was not the plan. What changed was her understanding of why food had been doing a job she didn't know it was doing, and what happened when she found other ways to meet those needs.If you've been carrying quiet shame about not being able to make your health habits stick, this episode is going to reframe what that struggle actually means. It doesn't mean you lack commitment. It means you've been solving the wrong problem. Chris figured that out. This is her telling you what that looked like, in plain language, with no performance.RESOURCESTake the free quiz to find out which pattern is getting in your wayDone with Dieting: Beyond Overeating Program — the program Chris started with before moving into 1:1 coachingEpisode 246: Is It OK to Want to Lose Weight? — If Chris's story stirred something in you about your own desire to lose weight and whether you're "allowed" to want that, this episode addresses that question directly and without shame.Episode 161: People Pleasing and Self-Care — Chris talks about how people-pleasing ran her life before this work. This episode goes deeper into exactly how saying yes to everyone else first quietly destroys your health habits.Episode 186: Breaking Through Midlife Weight Loss Barriers — If you heard Chris's results and thought "that's not possible for me," this episode unpacks the real reasons midlife weight loss feels impossible, and why it doesn't have to be.Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. I submitted a talk for SXSW 2027: Biohacking Is Just Dieting in a Lab Coat. Community voting runs through August 23rd, and it's part of what determines who gets on stage in Austin next March. If this resonates, I'd love your vote: CLICK HERE. Free account required, takes about a minute. If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast.After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too.To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving.Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.