28. Pendulum's puppet Reality Transurfing

Send us Fan MailIt's Tuesday and we're talking TransurfingIn any situation, a person can respond with two extremes of behavior. One is to be swept along by the current like a powerless paper boat and the other is to row stubbornly against the tide. We can ALL remember a time when we have been one or the other.Lazy, incapable of taking initiative, has no goals, and is happy to simply exist then they can be controlled.They become “predoomed” or a pendulum’s puppetThey abdicate responsibilityWallowing in self-importanceHowever, we’ve been given the ultimate gift: freedom of choice, yet some are too infantile to accept the gift preferring to remain constantly dissatisfied.People justify their actions, claiming their path is strewn with obstacles and something always goes wrong.But that something is balancing forces and pendulums that arise as a consequence of excess potential generated by their self-importance.Indignant - the guy on the airplane who demands his seat. A person who believes that their own wants and needs should be a priority for others would never dream that they are merely a guest in this world.People declare war on the pendulums, get drawn into the competition, and elbow their way forward. Their entire life becomes a continuous struggle for survival.When a person learns to break the loop with the pendulum they will have their freedom.To free yourself from the burden of pendulums you have to abandon inner and outer importance.We are not to be needy, indignant, or a fighter. So what are we to do? Next week we will discuss 3 tactical behaviors on doing this.Going with the flowGuiding signsLetting goLinks mentioned in the episode:The book Reality TransurfingVideo on ResponsibilityDownload your free guide on dealing with Pendulums and sign up for Stop the Mind Screw and Reality Transurfing news: Right Here!The Kathie Owen PerspectiveHelping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.🌐 Website: https://www.kathieowen.com📖 Articles & Bonus Resources: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog🎤 Human Patterns Under Pressure Live Join an upcoming live event to explore leadership psychology, nervous system regulation, and the hidden patterns that influence performance, relationships, and workplace culture.📱 Connect with Kathie: • LinkedIn • YouTube • Facebook • Instagram • PinterestIf this episode helped you see something differently, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who could benefit from the conversation.Pressure doesn't define us. It reveals the patterns we've yet to observe.