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EPISODE · Jan 4, 2026 · 1H 5M

28. Why I'm not a girl's girl, the wounded maiden archetype & ADHD in women.

from A Quest For Home · host Laurel Sibanda

Hello, beautiful souls. ✨This episode feels like a coming out to myself, and to you, with a side of myself that I haven't let myself own publicly beyond my words, and it's all about why I'm not a Girl, as a grown woman, and why I'm not a "Girl's Girl". Things we get into: ⭐️Girls' girl spaces where women don't heal, grow or hold each other accountable, and performative social media support and subconscious competitiveness that lingers here.⭐️ Why I despise anything about calling men “daddy”, and why the daddy kink a lot of women talk about makes me feel sad, touching on the male collective wounding and the father wound.⭐️ How my ADHD was showing up whilst at university, and how part of our neurospicy experience is that we can coast and suppress our full potential.⭐️ How the wounded maiden archetype manifests and its impact on our spiritual journeys, including within twin flame narratives.⭐️ Wild woman awakening related to our ancestries, including decolonial and depatriarchying work⭐️ Why we avoid being in our bodies as spiritual women, and what lingers underneath spiritual bypassing spaces.⭐️ The gruelling process of embodying your Wild Power.Additional resources:If you are new to feminine archetypes, here's a website that goes into them.Books mentioned:Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes.The article I wrote on Twin Flames.✯✯✯Thank you for being here.💗Please like / share / follow/rate this podcast, it helps to boost it so it can reach more beautiful souls and helps me with my journey of being a creative soulpreneur too!✯✯✯Check out more of my work, including my Substack newsletter and books out now via my website ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.You can contact me via email for a hello or collaboration at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠.📱Let's connect:✨ Instagram & Threads - @bylaurelsibanda✨  TikTok - @thespiritualpoetessDisclaimer:The information provided in this podcast is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, psychological, or any other form of professional advice. The host and any guests are not licensed professionals unless otherwise stated. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on the content. Neither the host nor guests assume any liability for any loss, damage, or adverse effects resulting from the use or reliance on the information provided.

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