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Mar 1, 2021 1 hr

28. Will you marry... you?

from Courting in Color Hosted by CourtNColor

On this week’s episode, Luis and Chatrice talk about sologamy. Since last week, our co-hosts had a press day, adventures in cooking, and home renovations. Through twitter scrolling, Luis found out that Mya has been married to herself for 7 years. It’s known as sologamy or self-marriage. Have you heard of this, Courting Cuties? Our hosts talk about what they think about sologamy, describe their ideal self proposals and self-marriages, discuss intentionally being single, and plan their self-weddings. Luis comes up with a new rom-com movie idea - starring Chatrice with Tiffany Haddish and Kerry Washington. Word of the Pod - sologamy (n.) a marriage by a person to themselves Time Stamps 0:21 - Catching up 5:00 - How much of adulting is cleaning? 10:38 - Shout out for the culture 12:39 - Main topic introductions 15:11 - What is sologamy? 16:37 - Dennis Rodman marrying self 20:58 - Hosts thoughts on sologamy 24:45 - Queer marriage existing outside the institution of marriage 26:00 - Hosts describe their self proposals and self marriages ceremonies 29:17 - What happens if sologamists find someone, is it self-divorce? 30:58 - Single postivity movement 31:10 - Cohosts talk about intentionaly being single 33:08 - Chatrice sees a white pe*is on Tinder 34:55 - Cohosts talk about what would self wedding look like 38:34 - Music to walk to down the aisle to at the hosts’ co-wedding 40:10 - Luis comes up with a new rom-com movie idea: Chatrice woudl have a self-marriage ceremony but find the love of her life at her self-marriage ceremony! 42:09 - Sologamy is not a new thing but it is new for some people 42:30 - Wedding registry for a self-marriage ceremony 43:12 - Why do we celebrate people fidning love with another person as opposed to love with themselves? 45:22 - Idea for Hallmark: cards to give someone who just broke up with someone else 51:00 - Focusing on interpersonal relationships to include romantic and platonic friendships 52:38 - Take yourself out, get cute like you would for a date 54:24 - Wrap up: how to understand or know more about sologamy A Guide to Sologamy by Sophie Tanner - https://www.imarriedme.co.uk/a-guide-to-sologamy-by-sophie-tanner/ Website: courtingincolor.com / Email: [email protected] / Instagram: @CourtNColor Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

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