28 Years of Marriage: The Highs, the Lows & Why We Never Gave Ourselves an Out

Send us Fan MailWE NEVER GAVE OURSELVES AN OUTDivorce gets talked about like a normal escape hatch. We think that mindset is quietly wrecking marriages, families, and the next generation. After a long break, we’re back on the Uncommon Freedom Show to celebrate 28 years of marriage and tell the truth about what it actually takes to stay together when life stops being tidy.We share our top highs and lows, from the joy of births and an adoption that took a long fight, to military separation, loneliness, and the kind of grief that doesn’t resolve neatly. We also open up about one of the hardest seasons of our parenting life: making a gut-wrenching decision for our son’s safety during a time when substance use is minimized in culture, vaping is everywhere, and fentanyl is a real threat. We walk through the decision filter we used, how we kept from turning on each other, and why strong community matters more than most couples realize.Along the way, we talk about practical marriage rhythms like quarterly retreats, the danger of an entitlement mentality, and why we’ve tried to surround ourselves with people who edify marriage instead of tearing it down. We even get candid about intimacy and why we believe sex within marriage is a God-designed gift that can grow richer over time when it’s honored and protected.We end with our “top secret” for not getting divorced, and it’s simpler than you want it to be. If you’re married, dating, engaged, or rebuilding trust after a hard season, listen, share this with a couple you care about, and leave a review so more people can find the conversation.Bekah Tinter:IG: bekahtinerFB: Bekah Tinterwww.bekandkev.com Subscribe and tell a friend!Get my book "The Seven Disciplines of Uncommon Freedom" on Amazon! Visit bekandkev.com today to sign up for our email newsletter.Access our Ideal Health Map HERE