#281 The Gender Episode

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We’re talking about gender, the binary, non-binary, language in general, femme, feminine, gender identity, fvcking up and learning in public, the narrow scope of womanhood and we get emotional and sh!t. THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR: Matriarch Creative Solutions Visit wearematriarch.co to learn more about how Matriarch Creative Solutions can support you, and subscribe to their mailing list to receive 11% off your first service. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations:7:26 Donation Libations: 18:26 Affirmations: 22:28 PayBlack Women: 29:06 Non-Binary Gender Discussion: 32:38 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! PAY BLACK WOMEN: Help Dee pay the outstanding balance on her electric bill so she can pay her rent on the 1st and beyond! Cashapp: $shandee9092 https://cash.app/$shandee9092 WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA More on language and gender: https://medium.com/@transstyleguide/alternatives-to-afab-and-amab-d7cf8fe20a72 This week’s closing clip features @wiildd_chiild risking his life for tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeRMgxjK/ This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment Music by Chad Milner