285 - An Anonymous Single Mum Story

This week on the show, I have an anonymous single mum sharing her story. She recounts her harrowing story of domestic abuse and how she got through it, in the hopes of giving other silent victims the courage to seek help.  **Please note this episode and topic may act as a trigger for some people, and this episode is not suitable to listen to within earshot of children.** In this episode, my guest talks about:  How she met her ex and the early signs she noticed the red flags. Dealing with "partner rape," a form of sexual abuse, and the shame and disassociation that comes with it. Losing her baby through miscarriage. Dealing with her ex's mother who was an enabler of his behaviour. Coping with physical abuse. The importance of knowing resources women can get help from. How her ex gaslighted her to try to erode her self-esteem. Dealing with her ex's narcissistic rage towards her. Overcoming her fear and leaving the abusive relationship. Getting the help of a family lawyer for dispute resolution and going on trial against her ex. Her advice for other women going through a similar situation.  The importance of having goals and rewarding yourself for the little accomplishments you achieve. Lessons she learned. It is my guest's hope that listening to her story will inspire victims to find their purpose and to set goals.  Links mentioned in the episode: Pregnancy Help Australia link Victim Services NSW  Jump on the waitlist for Thrive Tribe HERE.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.