287 - The Diamond Framework to Resolving Conflict in Your Marriage with Dr. Wyatt Fisher

Is dysregulation causing conflict in your marriage, or is your marriage causing you to feel dysregulated?  Or does it feel like both are true?When we get married, we don’t just marry a person.  The truth is that we also marry their history, their habits, their traumas, and their nervous system.  And this can cause a lot of conflict.My guest today is Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy who’s been married for over 20 years and raised 4 children. We touch on how we can resolve resentments despite the chaos of motherhood and how leaning on our spouse for shared decision making can help create intimacy.3 things you’ll learn in this episode:Why conflict is normal and important in relationshipsDr. Fisher’s brilliant Diamond Approach to address conflictWhat a “love bucket” is and how you can fill your partnersConnect with Dr. Fisher:Connect with Dr. Fisher on InstagramDr. Fisher's WebsiteListen to Michelle on The Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts!GRAB YOUR PLAN-A-PALOOZA TICKETTAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ!APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH MICHELLEFB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom CollectiveJOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM:@itsmichellegrosser“I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show!  This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey.  Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.”  Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!--🧠 What's your capacity pattern? Take the free 2-minute quiz and unlock The Capacity Code — a personalized private podcast episode for your specific nervous system. → Take the Capacity Pattern Quiz