288: Soapbox - Exploring Eroticism

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the fun and crucial topic of eroticism. Building on her previous discussion of nine competencies necessary for a great sex life, Jessa focuses specifically on the ninth competency: exploring what truly turns you and your partner on. She defines eroticism as more than just physical acts but the subtleties and energies that arouse us. Jessa provides strategies to identify and discuss erotic preferences with your partner, encouraging a shame-free and understanding conversation. She emphasizes the importance of finding overlap in erotic preferences to enhance intimacy and enjoyment in intimate relationships. The episode includes valuable tips like sharing scenes from media and using a 'yes, no, maybe' list to navigate these discussions. 00:00 Introduction to Better Sex 00:47 Exploring Eroticism: The Ninth Competency 02:20 Understanding Your Erotic Template 05:21 Communicating with Your Partner 07:04 Finding the Overlap and Playing Together 09:50 Conclusion and Resources Resource bundle, including Yes/No/Maybe list: https://www.intimacywitheasemethod.com/pl/2147554402 Podcast with Michael Bader: https://bettersexpodcast.com/179 Want to learn more about my sponsored charity? Charity: Water is committed to providing clean water to every human on the planet, 100% of your contribution will be used directly for water projects around the globe. You can learn more at https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/water. More info and resources: Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jessazimmerman.substack.com/subscribe