29. Gaslighting 101: When Reality Feels Twisted (and What to Do About It)

Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, doubting yourself, or thinking, “Wait… what just happened?” This episode of Self-Centered is here to help you put words to that feeling. In the third installment of our ego series, we unpack gaslighting—how it shows up both intentionally and unintentionally, and introduce four essential filters you can use to recognize it and protect your self-trust. This episode is especially for the overthinkers, the self-blamers, and the deeply empathetic souls who tend to abandon themselves in the name of love, peace, or understanding. You’ll leave with a clearer sense of reality, stronger internal validation, and tools to make yourself truly unfuckwithable.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:The two types of gaslighting: intentional manipulation and unconscious distortion caused by defense mechanismsWhy well-meaning people can still gaslight you and how to tell the differenceThe four filters of self-trust that help you discern truth, gaslighting, and genuine feedbackHow defense mechanisms like projection, denial, and minimization warp conversationsWhy logic doesn’t work on someone actively gaslighting you and why you must tune into your Internal Guidance SystemWhat it feels like to be around a fragile ego and how to stop abandoning yourself trying to be understoodLove the show? A quick rating or review helps us so much!New episodes every Tuesday – hit subscribe so you don’t miss out.Follow us on IG: selfcentered.podThoughts, questions, or episode ideas? Email us: [email protected]: The Self Centered with Katie and Allie Podcast is intended for entertainment, educational, and reflective purposes only. The views, opinions, experiences, and content shared by the hosts and guests are personal and subjective. They are not presented as objective facts or as representative of any professional body, organization, or field, including psychotherapy, coaching, or personal training.The information provided on this podcast does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It should not be relied upon as a substitute for consultation with qualified, licensed professionals.Listeners are strongly encouraged to seek the advice and support of licensed healthcare providers, mental health practitioners, coaches, or other appropriate professionals regarding their individual circumstances.The hosts, guests, and creators of the podcast disclaim all liability for any direct, indirect, incidental, or consequential loss or damages arising from the use of, reliance on, or interpretation of the podcast content or any linked materials. Use of this podcast and any related content is at your own risk.By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to these terms.