#29: How Your Body Tells You “YES” and The Impossible Paradoxes of Motherhood

You're in for a giggling treat as I saw down with my friend, collaborator, and co-conspirator Lisa Rombach in her cozy studio in Vienna. We talked everything intimacy, sensuality, pleasure, and motherhood. In this episode we covered: When therapy and healing work leaves out sexuality When most women don't know what their boundaries are What bliss and pleasure can look like outside of sex Sensuality vs sexuality We always have sex something to feel something emotionally Being a recovering people pleaser The importance of attunement in relationships Why it's so important to slow down so you can Why learning how to be with other people is a skill Listening to our bodies while we're with each other Why we need erotic friendly spaces The path to motherhood doesn't always involve having a baby The physical experience of motherhood A path to parenthood that is respectful both to ourselves and our kids All about the course MotherCircle The seasons of womanhood and motherhood Reclaiming the word "virgin" When mothers are desexualized Reclaiming motherhood from being politicized How to join Mother Circle and Embodied Bliss Circles Quotes: "As women and those socialized as women, we're never really taught to know what our boundaries are or even allowed to have them in the first place. We have to override them and smile when you really want to tell them to go f*ck themselves." "Learning to feel what your "yes" is can be terrifying and exhilerating all at the same time." "Maiden, mother, virgin, and the crone. After giving ourselves to society and the continuation of the species, this is when we become women whole unto ourselves." Get all the information about Mother Circle and register for the free class: The invisible contracts of motherhood on October 7th here. Mother Circle starts on October 21st. It's all online so you can join us from anywhere in the world. Get all the information about Embodied Bliss Circles in Vienna here. This is in-person in Vienna, for women and vulva havers. --- Follow this podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=13d9a8abecfe4ac0 Follow this podcast on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naked-unashamed-life/id1682478750 Want to connect more? For the shameless sexual confidence, pleasure and deep satisfaction you’ve been craving, head here: ⁠https://lucyrowett.com/⁠ Free PDF on how to confidently ask for what you want in bed: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywant Learn more about working together 1:1 here: https://lucyrowett.com/liberated-coaching-program/ Unlock your sexual happiness with Beducated. Get access to 100+ raw and honest courses on sex, led by the world’s top experts. You’ll find fresh new content every month. Get 25% off your annual subscription here, use the code LUCYROWETT25 at the checkout to get it: ⁠https://bit.ly/BeducatedLR25⁠ Social media links: IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett⁠ TT: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/⁠ FB: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lucyrowettcsc⁠ LI: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucy-rowett-csc-cs-acs-9a301351/ Credits: Produced and Hosted by: Lucy Rowett Cover Art by: Lucy Rowett