# 29 Why We Disconnect in Marriage (Part 1)

Send us Fan MailThis week on Who Gave Jeff Allen a Podcast?, Jeff and Carollynn sit down with the hilarious and heartfelt duo behind Connection Codes, Dr. Glenn and The Incredible Phyllis Hill. After years of misunderstanding and emotional misfires in their own marriage, the Hills discovered something radical — we’re all wired for connection, but most of us never learn how to actually do it. In Part 1 of this two-part series, they walk us through the early days of their disconnect, the surprising discovery that saved their marriage, and why we often mistake “being in love” for true emotional intimacy.If you’ve ever felt misunderstood by your spouse, this episode is for you.🔗 Find more from Glenn & Phyllis at connectioncodes.co🎤 Jeff AllenWebsite: JeffAllenComedy.comInstagram: @jeffallencomedyTikTok: @jeffallencomedyFacebook: facebook.com/JeffAllenComedyYouTube: youtube.com/@JeffAllenComedy🎙️ Carollynn XavierInstagram: @carollynnxavierTikTok: @carollynnxavierFacebook: facebook.com/recoveringcalifornianSupport the show🎧 Sponsored by Nordic WaveFeel better, sleep deeper, and recover faster with the same cold plunge trusted by Jeff Allen.👉 Use code JEFF150 at checkout to get $150 OFF your order!Only at nordicwave.comNordic Wave — Freeze your stress, not your wallet.