EPISODE · Dec 10, 2025 · 15 MIN
29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
from Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Healing After Divorce, Emotional Stability, Trauma Healing, God-Led Relationship, Single Mom · host pattymartinlifecoach
Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds? Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parent Emotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglect Conditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right" How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life: Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fear being left Testing Behavior - You push men away to see if they'll stay (self-fulfilling prophecy) Settling - You accept breadcrumbs because any attention feels better than none Hyper-Independence - "I don't need anyone" becomes your armor, preventing intimacy Moving Too Fast - You rush commitment to secure the relationship before they can leave Does This Sound Like You? You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems You feel incapable of choosing the right man You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know If you nodded your head to any of these, I'd like to ask you some questions for a research I am doing. I AM NOT SEELING ANYTHING - I simply want to understand your journey better so I can serve women like you more effectively If you or someone you know are interested, please send me an email to my email address listed below. 🔗 [email protected] Similar episodes 24| You Have It All But Still Feel Empty - From Loneliness to the Companionship You Deserve 20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
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