291 | How Far (And Much) I’ve Come: Wyoh’s Update

Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections. 00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery15:20 Understanding rejection and communication18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together 🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONEDMarc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.comLisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.comEsther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.comBrené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.comAndrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.comEmily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.comAmelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.comOphelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaanTyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.comShow Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-HardtAtlas of the Heart by Brené BrownHot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey CoxCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiCome Together by Emily NagoskiBurnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.