291. How to be more confident, decisive and certain

Having confidence, feeling certain and being decisive are valuable traits and they are learnable. In fact there are ways even just in the way we carry ourselves that add to whether we feel confident or not. So, How about you? If you don’t feel confidence very often, could it be that your mind is telling you things aren’t going to end well so it holds you back from trying new things? Here’s the thing, we are creatures of habits, whatever we do regularly, become our habits. So if you consistently hold yourself back, that becomes a habit, if you consistently have a hard time making decisions, that also becomes a habit, a sort of way of life. How many times have you heard someone describe someone as “they couldn’t make a decision to save their life. We can simply fall into the habit of that, but we can also learn how to be better at it. If you don’t feel confident, or certain or you have trouble making decisions,  You may constantly seek other peoples opinions or look to someone else for advice because you aren’t in touch with what you really want or you are afraid to admit to what you really want because it probably won’t happen anyway. And you can’t be certain about anything because there is no plan, there’s no scheduling out your week, life is just sort of happening as it comes to you so you aren’t really making decisions they’re sort of made for you by life just happening. But you see when I say each of those words confidence certainty and decisiveness. They generate inside of me an inspiration to want to feel them more. Because when you feel confident, and you’re able to make decisions, and you are certain that no matter what happens in life you aren’t gonna quit, that’s a winning formula for success because you can’t lose when you are certain you’ll never quit and you aren’t afraid to make decisions when you know that even if it wasn’t the right one, you learned something and you are one step closer to the right decision, which gives you the confidence to try again.