293. How to Conquer Scrupulosity

#293: In this episode, Sharif and Kevin explore scrupulosity — a form of OCD that targets the conscience itself, trapping thoughtful, well-intentioned people in endless loops of moral doubt. Kevin explains how scrupulosity hijacks the machinery of prudence, replacing genuine moral reasoning with what he calls "sham prudence" and "sham guilt" — feelings that are indistinguishable from real guilt but point in entirely the wrong direction. The conversation moves from vivid real-world examples of obsession, compulsion, and avoidance to a genuinely surprising insight: the cure isn't better moral reasoning, it's bypassing moral reasoning altogether — through imagination, empathic simulation, and a willingness to embrace the discomfort of sham guilt for the sake of love. Equal parts clinical and philosophical, this episode offers a framework that will resonate with anyone who has ever wondered whether their conscience is helping them or holding them hostage. Find more at https://OptimalWork.com