(3/4) Spotting Child Abuse: What To Do (and Who to Call) in Singapore | ft. NIE Bernard Mackenzie

In this critical episode of Not Your Old Uncle, we tackle the difficult subject of child abuse in Singapore. When you suspect a child is a victim, it's hard to know what to do. As a neighbour, friend, or community member, what is your role? And who can you call for help? 🎙️ Guest: Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at NIE Wellness Centre Singapore, joins Alvin for a clear and vital conversation on: - The different forms of abuse beyond physical: verbal, sexual, and neglect. - Why "old school discipline" (like caning in the 70s) is now understood as abuse. - How to spot the hidden signs that a child may be a victim (e.g., fear, physical marks). - Why the community and neighbours often stay silent (and why they shouldn't). - Practical, actionable steps on what to do and who to call for help in Singapore. If you are a parent, educator, or concerned member of the community in Singapore, this episode provides crucial, clear-headed suggestions on a topic that is too often misunderstood. 🔔 Subscribe for more midlife conversations on parenting, relationships, wellness, and personal growth. --- 🛑 DISCLAIMER: The views, opinions, and statements expressed by guests on 'Not Your Old Uncle' Podcast are theirs alone and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Authentic Legacy Media. 🧠 Special Note: This episode was recorded on 29 May 2025 before the Megan Khung Independent Review. This discussion is for general information only and is not a substitute for personal counselling or mental health advice. Please seek professional help for individual concerns. --- ► GET HELP IN SINGAPORE If you or someone you know is in immediate danger or needs support, please reach out. 📞 National Anti-Violence Hotline (NAVH): 1800-777-0000 (24/7) 💻 NAVH Website: www.msf.gov.sg/what-we-do/break-the-silence/ 🌐 Find your nearest Family Service Centre (FSC): www.msf.gov.sg/our-services/directories ► GUEST & HOST 📩 Learn more about NIE Wellness Centre counselling support: https://www.ntu.edu.sg/nie/about-us/campus-facilities/nie-wellness-centre ► ABOUT NOT YOUR OLD UNCLE 'Not Your Old Uncle' is a podcast for curious adults (40+) in Singapore and Southeast Asia. We tackle the new rules of life, career, and health with modern insights—not outdated "uncle" advice. Hosted in English (with occasional Chinese episodes). Subtitles available in English and Chinese. / 提供中英文字幕。 📌 Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction 00:36 - What Is Child Abuse? 05:00 - The Bystander Problem 06:04 - Spotting the Signs of Abuse 08:46 - "Old School Discipline" vs. Abuse 11:48 - Why Victims Stay Silent 12:38 - Educating Parents 17:47 - What is Neglect? 19:24 - "Return on Investment" Parents 20:51 - How to Help a Victim 23:48 - Who to Call: MSF & Anti-Violence Hotline #NotYourOldUncle #ChildAbuseAwareness #Singapore #ParentingAdvice #MSF -- Hosting provided by SoundOn