#3 - Breaking Barriers with Chiyla Hemeyer: A Candid Talk on Sexuality, Relationships and Multiple Sclerosis

Join us for a thought-provoking discussion with a close friend on gender and sexuality, which was sparked in our university days. We share how our sociology of gender and sexuality class transformed our perspectives on the binary view of gender and encouraged us to embrace the spectrum instead. This chat spans across our experiences with relationships, the trials of puberty, the intricacies of menstrual cycles, and living with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Through these intimate revelations, we hope to resonate with our listeners and offer insights into topics that often remain veiled. From shared interests in nutrition to pivotal lessons from our philosophy of gender and anthropology of gender classes, our friendship has grown over time. We talk about the ways in which these academic experiences have enriched our understanding of feminism and patriarchy, and how it impacts our lives, particularly in the context of our relationships and parenting. In this episode, we also tackle the Four Horsemen theory, and the importance of understanding and being mindful of our partner's feelings to foster healthier relationships. Lastly, we venture into the realm of relationship challenges, personal trauma, and the complexities of gender diversity. Listen in as we discuss the influence of Teal Swan's advice on setting boundaries, the necessity of improving sex education in high schools, and the controversies surrounding clothing choices. We shed light on the impact of MS on sexuality and the significance of stress management in dealing with chronic illnesses. This conversation offers a deep understanding of various aspects of life and encourages acceptance and empathy. Tune in and join our exploration of these profound topics. Social Media: @hailey.sutherland_ Timestamps: (02:42 - 03:07) Expressing Gratitude and Overcoming Fear (06:58 - 08:07) Effects of Patriarchy on Gender Roles (10:18 - 11:27) Improving Parenting and Child's Behavioral Reactions (14:30 - 16:28) Breaking Walls, Healing Past Trauma (18:43 - 19:32) Boundary-Setting and Relationship Issues (36:53 - 38:57) Exploring Gender and Sexuality Perspectives (47:39 - 50:22) Gendered Dress Codes and Education (51:56 - 52:38) Sexual Education (01:00:10 - 01:01:34) Open Communication About Menstruation in Relationships (01:08:18 - 01:10:35) Living With Multiple Sclerosis Keywords: Gender, Sexuality, Nutrition, Friendship, Parenting, Relationships, Trauma, Communication, Diversity, Clothing, Sex Education, Asexuality, MS, Stress Management, Adolescence, Psychology, Four Horsemen, Teal Swan, Boundaries, Marie Kondo, Youth Ops, Exercise, Eating, Meditation, Mindfulness