#3: Default vs Deliberate: The Wake-Up Call That Changed My Life

from Deliberate Dad · host Steve Cardwell

I didn’t realise I was living by default until my 32nd birthday, when I found myself sobbing into a scotch egg. No, seriously.In this episode, I tell the full story: the years of drifting, the businesses I started without intention, the toll it took on my health, my marriage, and eventually my sense of self. And then, the moment it all shifted.This is for anyone who's ever felt stuck in a life they didn’t quite choose. It’s not about perfection. It’s about waking up, taking ownership, and starting to live deliberately on your terms.––👣 Explore free tools and next steps here💬 Message me on Instagram: @deliberate.dad_🧠 Subscribe for weekly deep dives into clarity, consistency, and mental resilience.

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