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EPISODE · Mar 12, 2026 · 34 MIN

3 Reasons Why Men Lose Themselves In Relationships (And How to Reclaim Your Identity as a Man)

from Words Of Encouragement Podcast · host Frankie Lubin

Many men don’t lose their relationships — they lose themselves inside the relationship.In this episode of the Words of Encouragement Podcast, Frankie Lubin (Mr. Made Different) breaks down the deeper issue behind many relationship struggles: identity.When a man doesn’t know who he is, he begins to adapt to his environment, chase validation, and build relationships before he has built himself. Over time this leads to confusion, frustration, and loss of purpose.In this episode you’ll learn:• Why men lose themselves in relationships• How identity affects relationships and leadership• Why chasing validation destroys purpose• Why men must build themselves before building a relationship• How reconnecting with God stabilizes a man’s identityFrankie shares biblical insight, personal reflection, and practical wisdom to help men rebuild their identity and realign their lives with purpose.If you’ve ever felt lost in a relationship, disconnected from your purpose, or unsure about the man you’re becoming, this episode will challenge and encourage you.This podcast is part of the Made Different movement — helping men reclaim their identity through faith, discipline, and responsibility.Listen to the Words of Encouragement Podcast for conversations about identity, faith, masculinity, purpose, and personal transformation.#Identity #MensPurpose #ChristianMen #Masculinity #FaithAndPurpose

Many men don’t lose their relationships — they lose themselves inside the relationship.In this episode of the Words of Encouragement Podcast, Frankie Lubin (Mr. Made Different) breaks down the deeper issue behind many relationship struggles: identity.When a man doesn’t know who he is, he begins to adapt to his environment, chase validation, and build relationships before he has built himself. Over time this leads to confusion, frustration, and loss of purpose.In this episode you’ll learn:• Why men lose themselves in relationships• How identity affects relationships and leadership• Why chasing validation destroys purpose• Why men must build themselves before building a relationship• How reconnecting with God stabilizes a man’s identityFrankie shares biblical insight, personal reflection, and practical wisdom to help men rebuild their identity and realign their lives with purpose.If you’ve ever felt lost in a relationship, disconnected from your purpose, or unsure about the man you’re becoming, this episode will challenge and encourage you.This podcast is part of the Made Different movement — helping men reclaim their identity through faith, discipline, and responsibility.Listen to the Words of Encouragement Podcast for conversations about identity, faith, masculinity, purpose, and personal transformation.#Identity #MensPurpose #ChristianMen #Masculinity #FaithAndPurpose

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