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EPISODE · Apr 19, 2026 · 9 MIN

3 Signs God Wants You Single Right Now

from The Forge with Tomas Mones-Cazon · host The Forge with Tomas Mones-Cazon

Most guys asking whether they should be in a relationship are asking the wrong question. The real question is whether they're ready to lead one. A relationship isn't a reward for being lonely. It has a purpose, a direction, and a man who's supposed to be steering it. If you can't answer where you're taking her, you have no business stepping in. This video covers three specific signs that God might be calling you to stay single right now, and they apply whether you're already dating, thinking about it, or trying to hand this off to someone younger who needs to hear it.In this video I cover:-why your struggle with sexual sin disqualifies you before you even start-the difference between wanting a relationship and chasing female validation-why a woman cannot be your mission-what God is actually doing with your singleness if you're in a season of formation-how to honestly discern whether now is the time or notAre you seeking a community of like-minded men who hold the same standard you're trying to hold?The Legion is a brotherhood of Christian men built around real accountability, weekly coaching, and a network of men who are actually doing the work. If you're done doing this alone, the door is open.https://fitforthekingdom.com.au/the-legionMy work:https://linktr.ee/tomas.monesFit for the Kingdom (FFTK):http://fitforthekingdom.com.au/#catholicism #christianmasculinity #singleness #relationships #chastity #masculinity #discipline #catholic0:00 The Purpose of Relationships1:36 Sign 1 Sexual Sin3:56 Sign 2 Joy and Purpose From God6:38 Sign 3 God Is Still Forming You9:24 Wrap Up

Most guys asking whether they should be in a relationship are asking the wrong question. The real question is whether they're ready to lead one. A relationship isn't a reward for being lonely. It has a purpose, a direction, and a man who's supposed to be steering it. If you can't answer where you're taking her, you have no business stepping in. This video covers three specific signs that God might be calling you to stay single right now, and they apply whether you're already dating, thinking about it, or trying to hand this off to someone younger who needs to hear it.In this video I cover:-why your struggle with sexual sin disqualifies you before you even start-the difference between wanting a relationship and chasing female validation-why a woman cannot be your mission-what God is actually doing with your singleness if you're in a season of formation-how to honestly discern whether now is the time or notAre you seeking a community of like-minded men who hold the same standard you're trying to hold?The Legion is a brotherhood of Christian men built around real accountability, weekly coaching, and a network of men who are actually doing the work. If you're done doing this alone, the door is open.https://fitforthekingdom.com.au/the-legionMy work:https://linktr.ee/tomas.monesFit for the Kingdom (FFTK):http://fitforthekingdom.com.au/#catholicism #christianmasculinity #singleness #relationships #chastity #masculinity #discipline #catholic0:00 The Purpose of Relationships1:36 Sign 1 Sexual Sin3:56 Sign 2 Joy and Purpose From God6:38 Sign 3 God Is Still Forming You9:24 Wrap Up

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