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EPISODE · Mar 2, 2026 · 17 MIN

3 Signs You’re Abandoning Yourself And How to Stop

from The Shhhhit We Don't Say Out Loud · host Maggie Boillot

If you’ve ever felt lost in your own life or like you’re constantly at war with yourself… this episode is for you.In today’s episode Maggie dives into one of the most common and unnoticed patterns keeping people stuck: self-abandonment.Many of us don’t realize we’re abandoning ourselves because it looks normal. It looks like people-pleasing, waiting until we “arrive” to feel proud, or walking away from ourselves the moment life gets uncomfortable.But the truth?Self-abandonment slowly disconnects you from your confidence, your intuition, and the life you actually want.In this episode, Maggie shares the three powerful ways to recognize when you’re abandoning yourself — and how to start coming back home to who you really are.Inside this episode:How silencing your inner truth creates inner conflictWhy saying “yes” when you mean “no” damages self-trustThe hidden trap of only loving yourself after achievementWhy growth requires discomfort (and why that’s a good thing)How to rebuild self-trust one small step at a timeThe connection between boundaries, intuition, and personal powerThe 3 Signs of Self-Abandonment:You silence your inner truthYou only celebrate yourself after achieving somethingYou leave yourself when life gets uncomfortableConnect with me:⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HerSpace Community⁠⁠If this episode hit you, it would mean the world if you left a review and shared it with one person who needs it.Topics:toxic relationships, breaking toxic cycles, self-abandonment, betrayal, personal growth, self-awareness, healing patterns

If you’ve ever felt lost in your own life or like you’re constantly at war with yourself… this episode is for you.In today’s episode Maggie dives into one of the most common and unnoticed patterns keeping people stuck: self-abandonment.Many of us don’t realize we’re abandoning ourselves because it looks normal. It looks like people-pleasing, waiting until we “arrive” to feel proud, or walking away from ourselves the moment life gets uncomfortable.But the truth?Self-abandonment slowly disconnects you from your confidence, your intuition, and the life you actually want.In this episode, Maggie shares the three powerful ways to recognize when you’re abandoning yourself — and how to start coming back home to who you really are.Inside this episode:How silencing your inner truth creates inner conflictWhy saying “yes” when you mean “no” damages self-trustThe hidden trap of only loving yourself after achievementWhy growth requires discomfort (and why that’s a good thing)How to rebuild self-trust one small step at a timeThe connection between boundaries, intuition, and personal powerThe 3 Signs of Self-Abandonment:You silence your inner truthYou only celebrate yourself after achieving somethingYou leave yourself when life gets uncomfortableConnect with me:⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HerSpace Community⁠⁠If this episode hit you, it would mean the world if you left a review and shared it with one person who needs it.Topics:toxic relationships, breaking toxic cycles, self-abandonment, betrayal, personal growth, self-awareness, healing patterns

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