EPISODE · Apr 27, 2026 · 24 MIN
3 Ways to Feel Less Anxious Around People
from Calm Your Caveman · host Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell
Avoiding social situations can feel like relief…but over time, it can actually make anxiety worse.Your brain is constantly asking one question in social situations: “Do I have what it takes to handle this?” If the answer feels like “no,” you go into a threat response—anxiety, self-doubt, overthinking, exhaustion. But if you can shift how your brain sees the situation…everything changes.In this episode, I share 3 ways to do that:• Look for connections• Reduce the unknown• Accept yourself kindlyThese small shifts can move you from avoid → approach.⏱️ Timestamps01:13 – Why humans need social connection (even introverts)03:15 – The “glasses” metaphor: how perception shapes social stress05:03 – What a threat response looks like in social situations07:02 – What a challenge response looks like in social situations10:17 – Strategy #1: Look for connections14:33 – Strategy #2: Reduce the unknown18:33 – Strategy #3: Accept yourself kindly21:49 – Final thoughts: experimenting with your “glasses”For full show notes, including resources mentioned, go to: https://www.calmyourcaveman.com/episodes/3-ways-to-feel-less-anxious-around-peopleSend us Fan Mail🌐 https://www.calmyourcaveman.com
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Avoiding social situations can feel like relief…but over time, it can actually make anxiety worse. Your brain is constantly asking one question in social situations: “Do I have what it takes to handle this?” If the answer feels like “no,” you go into a threat response—anxiety, self-doubt, overthinking, exhaustion. But if you can shift how your brain sees the situation…everything changes. In this episode, I share 3 ways to do that: • Look for connections • Reduce the unknown • Accept yourself...
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