3. Why Victims Go Back: Love Bombing, Fear, and the Real Reason Leaving Takes Time

"I called lawyers for 15 years. I couldn't risk leaving my kids alone with him half the time." This episode explores why leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple as walking out the door, and what keeps survivors trapped for years, sometimes decades. It breaks down love bombing, the manipulative tactic abusers use to pull survivors back in, and explains the chilling statistic that 75% of domestic violence homicides happen when a victim tries to leave. It also speaks directly to family and friends, how to support someone without judgment, how abusers use technology to monitor victims, and what safe escape planning actually looks like. If you've ever wondered why someone you love went back, or if you've gone back yourself, this episode will help you understand why, and remind you there is no shame in it. Send us Fan Mail The personal experiences shared in this podcast are the opinions of the individuals sharing them and are not intended to serve as professional advice or constitute accusations about any other person, organization, or group. We encourage you to seek professional support and assistance. The topics discussed in this podcast may be distressing and triggering for some listeners and could impact your mental health. The content of this podcast is intended for educational and awareness purposes only. For more information and resources, please visit hanginthere.net.