#30 What You Need to Understand if Your Feminine Energy Partner is Closed (The Support She May Not Have the Words to Ask For)

In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: BEing is a very Feminine Energy quality. This can only occur when you are also experiencing safety. In a healthy dynamic, your Feminine Energy will naturally open when you sense the opposite energy in your partner (we all have Masculine/Feminine energies and being able to trust the other person’s Masculine energy is what will create more emotional safety, regardless of gender). Many women come to the table with unconscious wounds, distrust, and resentment toward the collective Masculine. This isn’t your job to heal for her, but trust that you play a part in her healing by being able to stay present and allow her to express her Truth. This requires you to also explore your history/beliefs about Feminine energy so you can integrate safety within yourself as well. A woman cannot open- her heart, mind, or body- to you if she isn’t experiencing safety. Part of this is her work to be able to trust herself and set boundaries to allow her to stay open and understanding this will help you hear her boundaries and create more safety by not asking her to override them. We all communicate our boundaries, your job (man or woman) is to hear them and believe them so we can truly honor the other person as their are. This is one of the most integrated Masculine energy expressions. Many men practice this (and women may not be sensitive enough to recognize it) and some men are socialized to “try harder” because she is “playing hard to get” and this doesn’t create the feeling of being seen- energetically- for the Empowered Feminine, and therefore she can’t naturally open around you. The sturdiness of your Masculine Energy (not socialized masculine traits) is what allows her to lean on you while her heart, mind, and body softens and naturally express more Feminine energy. If you’re in doubt of what she specifically needs/wants to soften, ask <3 Want more from Courtney? Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand Arise: the Art of Empowering Relationships (for women) 1:1 Mentoring Available Nourished: Using Your Appetite to Heal Your Relationship with Food  Men's 1:1 coaching Rooted — Courtney Schand Couples Masterclass- Supported: Create the experience of harmony in the home, together Instagram: @Courtney_Schand Ways to Work with Courtney Want more from Bri? 3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/ Sign up for Inside Out, The Art and Science of Healthy Relationships + Magnetizing the Divine Masculine: http://www.buildingbri.com/insideout-selfstudy Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/ Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ManifestingQueens111/ Instagram: @buildingbri Website: bulidingbri.com Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/