303. Lindsay Clancy, Death of the Pastor's Wife & the "Toxic" Marriage Habits That Are Actually Normal

The Lindsay Clancy trial ended in a mistrial—and somehow, after weeks of testimony, I'm left with even more questions about postpartum psychosis, criminal responsibility, motherhood, and what it actually looks like when a woman is desperately struggling. Then there's Mica Miller. I watched Netflix's new documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife, and her story has been living rent-free in my brain ever since. Two completely different women. Two completely different tragedies. But both stories forced me to think about the same uncomfortable question: How bad does it have to get before the people around a woman realize something is seriously wrong? Today we're talking about the Lindsay Clancy case, the mistrial, postpartum mental health, Mica Miller, Death of the Pastor's Wife, marriage, religion, control, and the complicated difference between understanding someone's circumstances and excusing what happened. And because I refuse to emotionally waterboard you for an entire hour, we eventually get back to our regularly scheduled freaky-deek programming with listener dilemmas and a conversation about the messy shit nobody tells you about long-term relationships, marriage, intimacy, resentment, boundaries, and the thoughts married people have but aren't always willing to say out loud. ASK ANON: TheHornyHousewifePodcast.com FOLLOW: @THHpod SPONSORS 💦 Uberlube — Get 10% off + free shipping with promo code HOUSEWIFE. Shop Uberlube BlueChew — Use promo code HOUSEWIFE at checkout. Shop BlueChew Popstar Labs — Get 20% off your purchase with promo code HORNYHOUSEWIFE. Shop Popstar Labs IndaCloud — If you're 21+, use promo code HOUSEWIFE for 35% off your first order. Shop IndaCloud