304. The Hidden Habit That Keeps Women Feeling Stuck with Nicole Phillips

There are moments in life that completely change the way we see ourselves—not because our circumstances change, but because our perspective does. My guest today is Nicole Phillips, a keynote speaker and five-time author whose work centers on one powerful idea: what you look for is what you see. A former TV news anchor and hospital chaplain, Nicole now helps audiences rewrite the stories they're living by. She hosts The Kindness Podcast, named one of the top happiness podcasts by Oprah Magazine, has appeared on NBC Nightly News, the Hallmark Channel, and HGTV's House Hunters, and has shared her message with more than 30,000 people across 200-plus speaking events. But her own transformation began with one unexpected encounter at a neighborhood swimming pool with a girl in a gold bikini. What started as a simple act of kindness became the catalyst for overcoming addiction, negative self-talk, burnout, and self-rejection, ultimately leading her to a life of greater joy, purpose, and impact. In this conversation, you'll discover: ● Why the stories we tell ourselves shape the lives we create ● How to stop rejecting yourself before the world ever has the chance to say yes ● The surprising lesson that taught Nicole about happiness, and the one question that has the power to shift everything. If you've ever struggled with confidence, visibility, or believing your voice truly matters, this episode will inspire you to see yourself—and your life—through an entirely new lens. Take the FREE Signature Style quiz now and discover your archetype: https://www.thevisibilitystylist.com/ Follow Nicole Phillips here: https://nicolejphillips.com/ Get her book, The Negativity Remedy, here: https://amzn.to/3RnJFJa Join me over on ​​https://substack.com/@theartofbecomingvisible/ Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theartofbecomingvisible/ Follow me on IG https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/