3096 Sexual Betrayal and Revenge! - Call In Show - October 7th, 2015

Question 1: [1:35] - At what point is a relationship irreparable and what are the warning signs to indicate so? Are things like cheating, deceit, abandonment, shaming, and manipulation deal breakers? I did all of these to my ex-husband and I feel so much regret over everything I put him through. My goal is to understand if my relationship with my ex-husband was and is now irreparable romantic-wise. I think it was repairable, but I didn't focus on him and avoided contact and was very reactive. I continued fantasizing about other guys and trying to get closer to them through talking and flirting. After stopping that behavior, not the fantasies, but acting on them, I began to be able to feel the love I had for my husband more. It makes me think of how Stefan says love is an involuntary response to virtue, but only if you're virtuous.Question 2: [1:41:03] - I'm an economics graduate currently managing a personal finance company. I have several female employees that are taking every attempt of mine to coach and improve their production personally, as if I am insulting them. I have also been lenient with them regarding their mistakes, dress code, and family responsibilities due to our success, as a reward for good service. But here lately, their attitudes have changed drastically. I can tell that they dread coming to work, and do not enjoy me being their manager. Having noticed this, I have tried everything I can think of to improve their attitudes; including branch contests, buying lunches, positive feedback when they do something good, not having to work overtime, etc. and nothing has helped. What am I doing wrong?Question 3: [2:16:43] - Recent news regarding Mars has made the possibility of extraterrestrial life, sentient or microbial, a more likely reality. How far should the right to life extend for forms of alien life?Question 4: [2:27:49] - Will an objective methodology resolve disputes that are holding back world peace?