31 Coaching - Jon Bevan: "Nothing's gone wrong, there is nothing to fix".

What if celebrating your achievements could be the key to unlocking sustained success and happiness? Join us as we welcome John, a remarkable individual juggling careers in both coaching and policing, to discuss the struggle many of us face: truly valuing our accomplishments. Despite receiving positive feedback and creating numerous opportunities, John finds himself questioning the satisfaction that comes with his success. Together, we examine the upper limit problem and self-sabotage, and explore how recognizing and celebrating milestones can maintain motivation and peace of mind.The journey of personal and professional development often hinges on mindset, and in this episode, we dive deep into the power of self-belief. John shares his rich experiences from coaching to kayaking, shedding light on common fears of fleeting success and scarcity. By reflecting on these fears, we uncover the underlying belief that progress and stability may not last. We emphasize the importance of evidence in reinforcing confidence and discuss strategies to overcome these doubts, ensuring continued growth and thriving in one's endeavors.Balancing ambition with gratitude is a delicate act.  John’s story brings to life the importance of recognizing incremental progress, like improved financial stability and more frequent holidays. By grounding ourselves in the present and embracing change, we can overcome the fear of impermanence in our achievements. The takeaway? Embrace the journey, sit with your beliefs, and understand that the true reward lies in the continuous process of growth and self-discovery.Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback...Forging Resilience supports Save A WarriorSave A Warrior works with veterans and first responders facing complex PTSD and the reality of suicide.Through this podcast, we’re supporting their work.If you want to get behind it, you can do that by buying a bag of  Major Stoke Blend coffee. All profits go directly to Save A Warrior.Good coffee. Real conversations. Work that matters.Support the showFollow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |