3102 You Can't Have It All - Call In Show - October 14th, 2015

Question 1: [1:30] - Stefan often talks about how the first six months of a relationship are mostly about lust. What steps can be taken within the first months to ensure that the relationships foundation is actually based on virtue and reason - and not simply feelings which might change? How do I know when to commit given that you could possibly find somebody better down the road?Question 2: [1:18:43] - I was always told that work is a right. I grew up in a middle class home where both parents worked but both also had plenty of time for their family – one was a teacher and the other had a 9-5 government job. I enjoyed an international career in my field the last seven years, but a little over a month ago - before finding your show - I began to question my choices and decided to take a year off to reexamine my goals. My desire to return to the traditional sense of work force started to dwindle and I began facing questions about the ethics, morals and validity of my probable decision. Is it morally wrong to stop working when so many people are struggling to find a job? Is work a right or an obligation?Question 3: [1:41:26] - Should I pursue a relationship with a woman I feel is good, but motivated to be so by faith and religion instead of logic and reason? Are the two compatible?