3148 Turn the Other Cheek

Sometimes, as parents, we can find ourselves getting frustrated when our children don't respond the way we expect them to. Then, that leaves us offended because of our own expectations. Turn the other cheek. Yes, we've taught them right and wrong. But in the moment, our feelings may be hurt. We may feel disappointment or even anger. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  However, it's important to remember that our children are still learning and growing, and it's not fair to place blame or misplaced anger on them. Instead, let's explore three things parents can do to "turn the other cheek". Because there's no excuse to blast our kiddos just because. So turn the other cheek. Pause. The K.I.S.S. ~ Pause! There is wisdom in the pause. This pause comes with compassion and understanding. It's not about being right.  You ain't got time for the ego! So pause. 1. Reflect on Your Own Expectations: It's crucial to take a step back and honestly examine our own expectations as parents. Are we expecting too much from our children? Are we setting unrealistic standards? By recognizing and adjusting our own mindset, we can avoid projecting our own frustrations onto our kids. Remember, they are still in the process of learning, and it's essential to give them room to make mistakes and grow. 2. Practice Empathy: Empathy is a powerful tool that can help us understand our children's perspective. Instead of getting upset when they don't meet our expectations, let's try to put ourselves in their shoes and see things from their point of view. Maybe they were tired, overwhelmed, or simply acting their age. By showing empathy, we create an environment of understanding and mutual respect, fostering stronger parent-child relationships. 3. Communicate: Communication is key in any relationship, including with our children. Instead of harboring resentment or blame towards them, it's crucial to have open and honest conversations. Discuss your expectations calmly and listen to their thoughts and feelings. By creating a safe space for dialogue, we foster a sense of trust and understanding, allowing our children to grow and learn from their experiences. As parents, it's natural to have expectations for our children's behavior. However, it's important to recognize that they are still learning and evolving individuals. To "turn the other cheek," we must reflect on our own expectations, practice empathy, and promote open communication. By approaching parenting with understanding and compassion, we can build stronger relationships with our children and create an environment conducive to their growth and development. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  [email protected]  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.