#319: Why Should I Work On Me Before I Worry About We?

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon delve into the crucial question: "Why should I work on me before I worry about we?" Join the Therapy Brothers on the podcast as they share insights drawn from their experiences as therapists and brothers. From navigating the challenges of individual growth to addressing the pitfalls of couples' therapy, they explore the importance of personal development in fostering healthy relationships. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" // Brannon's Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.brannonpatrick.com⁠⁠⁠ Therapy Utah: ⁠⁠⁠https://therapyutah.org/⁠⁠⁠ // COURSES // The Healing Journey: ⁠https://join.reclaimyourheart.com/⁠ Brannon's Boundary Bootcamp: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.brannonpatrick.com/Boundarybootcamp⁠⁠⁠ Tyler's Pornography Addiction Recovery Kickstart: ⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/courses/overcome-pornography-addiction/⁠⁠⁠ // EVENTS // Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat: ⁠https://radiantdawn.org⁠ Rising Son | Men's Retreat: ⁠⁠⁠https://risingson.org⁠⁠⁠ Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat: ⁠⁠⁠https://vibrantlove.org⁠⁠ // Reclaim Your Heart // Join our new community for quality exclusive content, incredible courses, and real connection: ⁠https://join.reclaimyourheart.com/ 0:00 - Intro 1:15 - Health Issues 3:22 - Family Reunion & Spread 5:12 - Growth Before Couples 7:05 - Couples' Effort Challenges 9:18 - Wrong Target 11:30 - Frustration in Efforts 13:45 - Impact of Addiction 18:10 - External Focus 21:05 - Drama in Couples Therapy 26:15 - Trust & Healing 33:40 - Faith in Relationships 36:15 - Outro