32. How Perception Shapes Leadership, Dentistry, and Every Awkward Team Meeting

This might be the most philosophical episode we've ever done—but stay with us. In Episode 32, we're diving into a wild little internet clip that blew our minds and perfectly explains something we've both experienced as leaders, dentists, and just regular dudes trying to figure it all out: your reality isn't always real. From funny stories about patient delusions (and yes, a surprising amount of cat hair) to the mindset shift that can change your entire experience as a dentist, this episode explores how what you see is often what you're looking for. And how shifting that lens can change everything—from toxic team culture to your own happiness. 🎧 Hit play now to hear: The internet clip that made us question everything (look up "That is Embarrassing" if you're curious) Why your "truth" at work might be clouded by your mindset How we accidentally (but intentionally) create September The power of choosing your reality—even when your day sucks Plus, some hilarious patient stories and unexpected wisdom about Mountain Dew, hair loss, and cat ladies 🐱 If you've ever found yourself frustrated with your team, your schedule, or even your own reflection—it might be time to shift what you're looking for.   LINKS: https://www.thedentistsshow.com   Episode Minute By Minute:  00:00 – Welcome to Episode 32 + cat lady definitions 03:00 – The "That is Embarrassing" clip + what your brain hears 05:00 – Perception vs. reality: the science behind how we process things 07:00 – Inter-office drama and how we create our own frustration 09:00 – Learning to reflect before reacting (and firing) 10:30 – We create what we look for—positivity or problems 13:00 – Why September is a myth (unless you believe it's not) 15:30 – Patient delusions and dental misunderstandings 😂 18:00 – Leadership mindsets: curiosity vs. judgment 19:30 – Joy is a skill, not a default 21:00 – The secret to a happier team and better culture 22:00 – Gratitude, homeschooling daughters, and Tuesday podcast breaks 25:00 – Reframing patient experiences and building trust 27:00 – Final takeaway: See what you want to see. Choose joy.