32. Peeve me alone!

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis welcome Jennifer to talk about pet peeves in dating and relationships. Since last time of recording our hosts have been busy with online driving school, braces off, covid vaccine shots, and meeting of partner parents. This epsiode has Chatrice, Luis, and Jennifer discuss various pet peeves from ghosting to moving too fast to leaving the cabinet doors open. What are your pet peeves, Courting Cuties? Time Stamp 0:44 - Hosts Check In 4:55 - One adult thing since last recorded 7:03 - Shout out for the culture 8:05 - Derrick Jaxn 9:46 - Hotep-ery in dating and relationship spaces 11:15 - Lil Nas X & Montero 13:53 - Guest intro: Jennifer 19:00 - College degrees and dating 22:12 - Topic of the episode: pet peeve, things that annoy us in dating 22:48 - Is a pet peeve the same thing as a deal breaker? 23:08 - Pet peeve: ghosting 24:30 - If ghosting is a deal breaker, what deal are they breaking with ghosting? 27:16 - Pet Peeve: moving too fast 29:08 - Luis’ difference between pet peeve vs. deal breaker 30:28 - Deal breakers is the umbrella term, pet peeves fall underneath it 30:48 - Chatrice’s view of dealbreakers and pet peeves 31:15 - Jennifer’s TikTok on pet peeves: https://www.tiktok.com/@jennijenjen88/video/6906527891169856773 32:30 - Pet peeve: inconsistency 34:45 - Fear of rejection, doing the most than you should be during that point in the game 35:24 - Consistency is grounding 36:50 - No commitment and already buying gifts 37:22 - No girlfriend actions without the girlfriend title 37:47 - Top 5 pet peeves or so 38:12 - Chatrice’s Top 5 pet peeves 41:56 - Jennifer’s Top 5 pet peeves 42:27 - The IDK guys 43:55 - Luis’ Top 5 pet peeves 47:11 - What do we do when we encounter these pet peeves? 49:39 - How to be emotionally vulnerable when you didn’t have a good example of that growing up 51:05 - What would other people say are pet peeves are you? 55:02 - Responding to what the internet says about pet peeves: work self vs. home/personal self, snoring, needing constant validation 1:00:32 - Bad kissers: pet peeves or deal breaker? 1:00:48 - Can you train or coach someone to be a better kisser? 1:01:58 - Tiny lips (for kissing) 1:03:54 - Communicating bad kissing and how is it received 1:04:38 - Wrap Up: final thoughts on dating and relationships pet peeves Website: courtingincolor.com / Email: [email protected] / Instagram: @CourtNColor Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!