32. You Are Not Your Circumstances (Learning Who God Says You Are) with Megan Sanders

What happens when God cares more about shaping your character than advancing your calling?In this episode of the Not Just Waiting Podcast, I’m joined by my friend Megan Sanders—a writer, coach, and thoughtful listener who helps women move out of pressure and performance and into a steadier way of living.Our conversation goes deep into identity, growth, and what it looks like to become the person God is forming you to be—even when the path feels messy or unclear.We talk about the tension between passive waiting and active waiting, how our expectations can quietly shape our identity, and why understanding the character of God changes everything about how we see ourselves.This episode felt like a deep breath for me, and I think it will for you too.In This Episode We Talk About• Why seasons of “murky water” can deepen our understanding of God • When God focuses on shaping your character instead of advancing your calling • The pressure to perform in faith and relationships • Letting go of identity built on productivity and people-pleasing • How core values can guide you through uncertain seasons • Why you are not your circumstances, emotions, or current seasonBooks Mentioned⁠In His Image by Jen Wilkin⁠⁠None Like Him by Jen Wilkin⁠⁠The Gospel for Helpers⁠Follow Megan and read her Substack:Instagram: ⁠@megan.m.sanders⁠ ⁠@megwatercolors⁠Substack:⁠ Life Lived Between Ideal & Real⁠The ⁠Guide to Becoming⁠ is a Scripture-based reflection guide designed to help you stay rooted, honest, and present while you wait.