329: Parenting Teens Without Losing Your Cool with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart

In this powerful, hope-filled episode, I sit down with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart, clinical psychologist and parenting expert, to talk about what's really going on beneath the surface during the teen years. She unpacks what to do when your teen shuts down, why nagging and lecturing don't work, how to reset when you've lost your cool, and how to support your teen without losing yourself in the process. From messy rooms to slammed doors and screen-time battles, this episode will give you practical tools to reconnect with your teen, regulate your own emotions, and build a stronger relationship—without the shame spiral or the power struggles. Because behind every behavior is a need. And when you meet your child with curiosity instead of control, that's when real change happens. 💬 Whether you're parenting a tween, teen, or just want to prepare for what's ahead, this one is a must-listen. What You'll Learn: Why the behavior you see isn't the full story (and what to focus on instead) How to navigate the belief → behavior gap with empathy The best questions to ask your teen (even when they say "I don't know") A simple strategy to reset yourself before reacting How to stop parenting from fear and build connection instead Why phones and social media are creating emotional dysregulation—and what to do about it When to lean in, when to back off, and how to build trust in the hardest moments Resources Mentioned: 📘 Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart's new book: Love the Teen You Have 📲 Follow Dr. Ann-Louise on Instagram: @dr.annelouise.lockhart 🌐 Visit her website: www.anewdaysa.com Resources: Join Clutter Cure Club Want to create a home that feels light, peaceful, and aligned with what truly matters? Inside CCC, we turn powerful mindset shifts (like today's episode) into small, doable changes that last. 👉 Join me inside the Clutter Cure Club (https://www.katyjoywells.com/cluttercureclub-page837548) Join the Ready, Set, Simplify Newsletter Over 35,000 women read it weekly for clutter-busting tips, tiny mindset shifts, and practical steps to simplify your home and your life. 👉 Sign up here (https://www.katyjoywells.com/simplify) Come Say Hi on Instagram Behind-the-scenes and real-life simplicity. @katyjoywells