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EPISODE · Jun 18, 2026 · 41 MIN

334 💕 Date Smarter in Midlife: Trust Your Inner GPS & Find Lasting Love with Sandy Weiner

from The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose · host Wendy Valentine - Podcaster, Author & Midlife Coach

In this fun and empowering episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Sandy Weiner — Chief Love Officer at Last First Date, internationally known TEDx speaker, and author of three books on dating and relationships — to talk about what it really takes to find love in midlife. Sandy gets refreshingly real about the dating mistakes we make, from the attraction trap to the fantasy-attachment spiral, and why the key to finding lasting love isn't finding the right person first — it's becoming the right person first. From setting boundaries on a first date to discovering your core values through your biggest pet peeves, this episode is packed with practical, no-nonsense wisdom for anyone navigating love after 40.What You'll Learn•       What's truly different about dating in midlife vs. your 20s and 30s — and why that's actually a very good thing•       How to uncover your core values using Sandy's simple "what annoys me" method•       Sandy's practical "Boundaries in Your Back Pocket" approach for communicating your needs with confidence on dates•       The attraction trap — and why chemistry can make us overlook major red flags•       How to know when you're truly ready to date again after divorce or loss — and what to do if you're not sure yet🎧 Tune in nowhttps://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com ✨ Watch the video replay https://midlifology.net 👉 Connect with SandyFacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate/ Website: http://lastfirstdate.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/  💛 Big love to our sponsor, Folly Nutrition — The Daily Hair Growth Gummy. Visit follynutrition.com/MIDLIFE and use code MIDLIFE for 10% off your order. 🌟 Explore All Things Midlifehttps://wendyvalentine.com 📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Uphttps://womenwakingup.com 📸 Follow My Adventures on IGhttps://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

In this fun and empowering episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Sandy Weiner — Chief Love Officer at Last First Date, internationally known TEDx speaker, and author of three books on dating and relationships — to talk about what it really takes to find love in midlife. Sandy gets refreshingly real about the dating mistakes we make, from the attraction trap to the fantasy-attachment spiral, and why the key to finding lasting love isn't finding the right person first — it's becoming the right person first. From setting boundaries on a first date to discovering your core values through your biggest pet peeves, this episode is packed with practical, no-nonsense wisdom for anyone navigating love after 40.What You'll Learn•       What's truly different about dating in midlife vs. your 20s and 30s — and why that's actually a very good thing•       How to uncover your core values using Sandy's simple "what annoys me" method•       Sandy's practical "Boundaries in Your Back Pocket" approach for communicating your needs with confidence on dates•       The attraction trap — and why chemistry can make us overlook major red flags•       How to know when you're truly ready to date again after divorce or loss — and what to do if you're not sure yet🎧 Tune in nowhttps://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com ✨ Watch the video replay https://midlifology.net 👉 Connect with SandyFacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate/ Website: http://lastfirstdate.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/  💛 Big love to our sponsor, Folly Nutrition — The Daily Hair Growth Gummy. Visit follynutrition.com/MIDLIFE and use code MIDLIFE for 10% off your order. 🌟 Explore All Things Midlifehttps://wendyvalentine.com 📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Uphttps://womenwakingup.com 📸 Follow My Adventures on IGhttps://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

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