335. Compassion, Compliments & Sex Parties: Exploring Masculinity & Shame with James Walsham

"What's hard about being a man?" This is a question I've been asking a lot of (those who identify as) men lately. And while so many of our modern conversations are rightfully focused on helping marginalized communities heal and be supported after generations of oppression, men are often under-supported in the realm of mental and emotional health, and the results impact the entire collective.   This is why people like James Walsham "The Compassionate Man" and others have begun creating platforms to help men shake off generations of outdated and toxic paradigms around masculinity and societal expectations to have somewhere to do the work of self-discovery, expanding their worldviews, opening up emotionally, strengthening their relationships and growing as humans.   In this episode, James and I are talking about:   Why men often struggle to open up emotionally Why men often don't give compliments to other men How women can better understand and support men How to deal with sexual shame and guilt Exploring sexual fantasies, how sex parties work and the safety measures involved Why social media is a great tool for learning and joining conversations  Where men can find men's groups, men's circles and men's communities CONNECT WITH EMILY Book a private coaching call with Emily to work together. Your FREE 15-page foundational guide Where Do We Begin. Jump on the waitlist for Becoming YOU (6-week women's group coaching) coming soon! Men's group coaching program coming in November 2022 – waitlist here. Instagram: @emilygoughcoach [email protected]          Emily Gough Coaching Room to Grow Podcast Podcast Producer: Adam Liefl REFERENCES:    James Walsham On Instagram @iamjamesoliver   The Honest Bloke Podcast   Shit Men Are Shit At On Instagram   Episode 321 | Abortion, Women's Rights & Tough Conversations With Sara Silverstein & James Walsham   Episode 266 | Not All Men, But Almost Always With Traver Boehm Of Man Uncivilized/   Episode 280 | Choosing Relentless Courage, Facing Death & Challenging Societal Norms With Traver Boehm Of Man Uncivilized, Part 2    Episode 203 | Insecurities, Redefining Masculinity & Overcoming Pornography Addiction With Kieran Hedley   Episode 130 | Cancer, Depression & Strength: A Powerful Story Of Hope & Resilience With Tom Mcclelland   Episode 274 | How To Have Compassion For Someone Who Hurt You   Episode 270 | Cultivating A Deep Sense Of Self Worth   Connor Beaton On Instagram   Stefanos Sifandos On Instagram   Traver Boehm On Instagram   Brandon Kyle Goodman On Instagram   Emmanuel Acho On Instagram   Justin Baldoni - Man Enough Podcast   Liz Plank On Instagram