#336 Why the One Who Hurt You Can't Heal You with Najwa Zebian

In today’s expert episode, I’m sitting down with the incredible Najwa Zabian, Lebanese-Canadian author, speaker, and educator, to talk about her powerful new book, The One Who Broke You Can’t Heal You. We dive into why so many of us seek closure, validation, and even healing from the person who hurt us—and why it never truly works. Najwa breaks down the struggles we face when trying to let go after heartbreak, how we often avoid focusing on our own healing journey, and discusses the challenge of accepting someone for who they truly are once they've shown us their true colors. We also explore why crying over lost memories can be just as important as finding new joy, what it means to trust yourself after betrayal, and the freedom that comes from prioritizing your own peace over fixing or changing someone else. If you’re struggling to move on, looking for breakup advice, or want tools for healing after heartbreak, this episode is a must-listen.To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LNTo get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off!To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreakYou can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.