34. Mother's Day (But Make It Honest)

Mother's Day is supposed to be relaxing… so why does it sometimes feel like one more thing mums have to manage? This week, Patti and Meghan are talking about the emotional load of motherhood, the invisible work nobody notices, and the silent expectations that can leave mums feeling exhausted, unseen, and just a tiny bit resentful. From terrible breakfast-in-bed pancakes to minivan trauma, nap guilt, and the ongoing struggle of being everyone's emotional support human, this episode is honest, funny, and painfully relatable. They're also diving into: Why mums secretly just want someone else to make the decisions The difference between intention and effort on Mother's Day How motherhood can make you lose pieces of yourself Why "What do you want to do?" is the most exhausting question ever Funny preschool Mother's Day memories that still haunt them The emotional transition from busy mum life to "Who even am I now?" Why communicating your needs actually matters What thoughtful gestures really mean to mums Plus: Meghan officially retires from minivan life Patti discovers she's becoming a nap person The kids continue proving they are both adorable and feral If you've ever hidden in the bathroom for peace, felt guilty for wanting alone time, or silently rage-planned your own Mother's Day… this episode is for you. And to all the mums listening, we hope you don't have to plan a single thing this weekend.