35. The Backlash that Comes with Kindness | Live Brighter With Tara

Have you heard the phrase "Life is about serving others?". For us kind girls, we don't need to hear that message regularly since service is so easy for us that we tend to over-give at the expense of ourselves. While service is important, it's much more important to have balance and understand the order of things first. Join me in this week's episode as I talk about how important it is for us to love ourselves and how we can take ownership of our situation.    Avoid the backlash and trap that comes with over-giving by watching this week's episode!   For more information: https://www.livebrighter.info/   For free affirmations: https://forms.wix.com/92afa3c4-cdce-4001-8b89-7d69785eeab9:0b817886-a600-4dee-9177-f0847ad749cc   Get the UNRAVEL NOTEBOOK HERE: https://www.amazon.com/Unravel-Notebook-Tara-Wolfe-Schaan/dp/B0CTPDWJ8L/ref=sr_1_1?crid=8HEZHNF2F962&keywords=unravel+notebook%2C+schaan&qid=1707165877&sprefix=unravel+notebook%2C+schaan%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1   Take the Kind Girl Bullseye Quiz here: https://forms.wix.com/f/7148757541181195077   Podcast Chapters:  01:46 Where do we usually get the message that "life is all about serving others" 02:57 My story with over-serving (My past) 04:41 Loving ourselves: How can we rediscover ourselves? 06:20 What are the things that get in the way of loving ourselves? (belief system, trauma, past) 09:59 What happens when a kind girl gets wounded regularly? 13:24 What are things we can help with ourselves and knowing to love ourselves? 14:16 Taking Ownership 15:11 Choosing to reiterate true beliefs     Follow us on our Socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livebrighterwithtara/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552844352218     Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dn7pWgzGjrc Listen on apple podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/live-brighter-with-tara/id1706176973 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3XRuiEdnUyrHjXi0kA5F8H   Grow 1% each day, I believe in you! Thank you for listening!   Helping tags: KindnessTrapExposed, SelfSacrificeDebate, ServiceVsSelfCare, OverGivingSyndrome, BalanceIsKey, SelfLoveRevolution, BreakFreeFromOverGiving, TheMythOfSacrifice, RevolutionizingSelfLove, ChooseYourself, OwnYourSituation, KindnessBacklash, TheCostOfOverGiving, SelfWorthJourney, SelfLoveOverService, TheTruthAboutKindness, RedefiningService, PrioritizeYourself, KindnessDeconstructed, EmpowerYourself